Want to help? Want to save the world? Feed the sick? Feed the hungry?

You can’t start until you learn how to say “no.”

Boundaries are an underrated part of helping. We all beatify the woman who volunteers for everything, who runs herself ragged serving others. But what about the woman who says “no” 75% of the time, and brings a spark of vitality, purpose, and drive to the things she Does choose to serve? What about her?

You cannot give effectively unless you first Have.